Reflections and Post Script
January 15, 2012Thirteen months of traveling is a vast time-frame to
summarize. I agree with travel author Rick Steves: “Travel is intensified
living.” Our trip was like being in college, when I had tons of input and
plenty of time to learn. It was intense, in a way that could not endure
forever. Here are some crystallized thoughts and reflections.
The world is full of wonders. Our travels in Europe opened us to great new vistas. Yet even in the United States, each place we visit has its own personality and character: language, beliefs, history, music, perspective, art, architecture, economy, community, literature. Exploring these places has been like meeting new people. (And it is largely though meeting new people that we get to know the places.) Just as a person has particular traits – and to learn these traits is to know the person – so each place has special traits. Becoming friends with these places has been a delightful process of discovery.
Spending such an extended time with Pam and the kids has been “intensified family”. We enjoyed living together, free from the responsibilities of school, work, and home ownership. As a result, we laughed and played and talked more. We developed family culture: language patterns, rhythms of life, and shared memories. We saw very clearly one another’s weaknesses. And I learned, through the painful process of repentance and reconciliation, many of my own weaknesses. (See the previous entries in my personal blog for more details on this last point.) Through the ups and downs, we grew as humans and we grew closer as family.
Posted by Jim Taylor.